Are you a stressed-out overachiever?

by | Oct 14, 2019 | Blogs | 0 comments

Always DOING DOING DOING…

But somehow never truly getting what you want…

Cause it just never seems to be enough? 

Well don’t worry you’re not alone… I’m in recovery myself! 💁‍♀️

And at times I still relapse…I think I have to DO all these things…

I get stressed, frustrated, beat myself up for not having done it better…
I try to do everything at once, with so many to dos on my list that I get so overwhelmed and really it doesn’t matter anyway how much I do cause at the end of the day there’s this sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach that it just wasn’t ENOUGH…

Want to know the most f***ed up part?

It never will be…no matter how much I DO I will never GET ENOUGH…

“Ok Jen…I get it…I mean that’s why I’m stressed all the time…BUT I have bills, to pay, kids to feed, partners to take care of, a household to run, goals to hit, businesses to grow…I have to keep DOING all the things!!!”

I hear ya!

And if you’re a true overachiever…well your whole identity is wrapped up in DOING…I mean you can’t just stop!

What would you DO???!!!🤪

But when I say we want to DO less…I don’t mean taking no ACTION

If you’ve chosen to BE a mother you have responsibilities of course…the same as I have responsibilities BEING a business owner…

But here’s the fundamental difference: DOING VS BEING

I know it sounds like it’s just semantics…but it really isn’t!

Both are about taking ACTION

But the intent behind it makes all the difference…

DOING is about “getting” something…

BEING is who we are in our core, it’s expressing our purpose…it’s about sharing who we are and GIVING…

And here’s the TRUTHBOMB: If you’re constantly DOING DOING DOING and you’re BUSY BUSY BUSY…

You’re not truly BEING anywhere!

That’s what is was for me…that’s why even though I had the money, success, all the “things”…

I wasn’t HAPPY!

Cause I wasn’t BEING who I wanted to be!

I want my life to be about joy, love, excitement, adventure, passion, wisdom, truth, creativity….

But because I was so caught up in getting these things by DOING…

I was experiencing the opposite of what I wanted…stress, doubt, overwhelm, anxiety, depression…and always not GOOD ENOUGH

NOW here’s the GOOD NEWS…

Being an overachiever is not bad at all…in fact without people like me and you that have this incredible desire and drive to create and achieve the world would look nothing like it does…

And if you can recognise how you’ve been a stressed out overachiever addicted to doing…well CONGRATS! 🎉

All it’s gonna take a small tweak from doing to being (and being an overachiever this is no problem right 😜)

And you’re not only completely transform your life to enjoy so much more love, success and all else you want…

But you’re going to transform the lives of those around you…cause we need more leaders like you who are truly BEING the highest of human potential 💗

In fact we need you desperately (I mean just turn on the news for a second!)

So come on my overachieving friend…we got this! 💪❤️

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