The 1-3-5 method to build your confidence
Have you ever wondered why cocaine is the rich person’s drug?
Cause it’s basically confidence in white powder…just a little sniff and there you go 😜
And confidence is like a magic pill
It’s something we all want
Cause someone who is confident
They go after what it is they want
They say what they want to say
Go where they want to go
They have something about them that we all gravitate towards
The only problem with getting your confidence from a thin white line is…
Well it will go away again as quick as you snorted it! 😅
It’s the same for same any method we use to get confidence from outside of ourselves…
Be it success, money, relationships…
True inner confidence however will make you unstoppable
It truly allows you to be all you want to be
And isn’t that what we all really want?
To test out the limits of all we can be?
To BE MORE?
But the bad news first…
True inner confidence doesn’t come in the form of white powder…
You don’t need to be rich or a druggie to get it 😂
Even better news:
I have desired and struggled with confidence all my life
And in that pursuit I’ve figured out many ways that don’t work and one simple truth:
We are all capable of building up our own confidence
True inner confidence is not something that people have or not
Like long legs or curly hair
We’re all born with the ability to be confident…it’s a state
And we can always grow and expand it
So in this blog I want to share a really easy simple way on how you can build up your confidence no matter where you’re at:
It’s called the 1 3 5 method
- Set one goal 🎯
Set a goal you’re excited about and really want to have or achieve
And Set a realistic time frame for it
The trick here is to get the balance right between being realistic so you believe that you can achieve it (even if only just) and that you’re truly excited about it.
The goal could be something really little or mundane like buying those super expensive jeans you’ve wanted for so long or reading that book you’ve been putting off or finally working out each day or something outrageous like doubling your weekly income or 10x your business this year…
3) Three reasons why 💗
Once you have your goal write out 3 reasons why you want it
This is to test your goal
Once you’ve finished your reasons why If you’re not jumping out your seat with excitement you want to pick a different goal
You want to have butterflies in your stomach after this as if you’ve just seen your high school crush walk through the door #swoon 😝
It doesn’t matter what the goal is as long it has the butterfly effect
5) Five actions to take 💪
Now list 5 action points you will commit to (preferably daily) in order to achieve this goal.
And this is what it’s really about here:
It’s your commitment
I love teaching this exercise and doing it myself cause achieving the goal is only an added side benefit…
The “real goal” is to build your confidence.
And that simply comes from following through on what we say we gonna do.
Cause confidence is an INSIDE JOB
It comes from the trust we have in ourselves
And that trust is built and strengthened when DO what we SAID we’d do
When we honour our commitments
When we honour ourselves and what we truly want
So all you gotta do is honour those 5 action points
Cause even if you don’t achieve your goal right away, as long as you keep sticking to it and adjusting your action points the way you need…
You’ll eventually achieve your goal and will have built up your confidence even stronger along the way 💪
So let me give you a quick recap cause we have a pretty sweet deal here:
🌟You use the 1 3 5 method to build your confidence
🌟You get your goal as a side benefit
🌟You can use this with the smallest or biggest of goals
🌟And there are no side effects like nose bleeding, risks of overdose or becoming one of those arrogant coke head d*** 🤣
So Happy high fly 😜